If you’re like most daters, you want a grand sign to tell you that you’ve met the one. But meeting that special someone will not feel like a Hollywood movie. That special person will not save you from a car that’s about to hit you, and they’re most likely not going to heroically save you from a burning fire. And ladies, he probably won’t be standing outside serenading you with a mariachi band. Sadly, that’s just the way Hollywood makes it out to be.