It definitely hurts to find yourself in a situation where you think your boyfriend no longer wants to be with you. There could be many reasons as to why he won’t just come out and say it, but sadly many people today like to hold on as long as possible because they’re afraid of being alone or don’t want to start all over again. Whatever his excuse might be, it is selfish of him to do this to you. When you’re over someone, you should move on no matter what fears you have about leaving.
As matchmakers, we know there is no excuse to drag someone along for your own selfish reasons. If your guy is doing this to you, you need to pick up the pieces and move on. Keep your head up, and don’t put up with it. He is just holding on to you for selfish reasons.