Dallas Matchmakers | 6 Signs You’re the Rebound Guy
You’re so head over heels for this girl, but something doesn’t feel quite right. She kisses you, hugs you, and has sex with you whenever you want. How did you get so lucky? Or wait! Are you the new rebound guy?
We have all been in a relationship that destroyed us and made us feel like nothing would ever make us feel whole again. Yep, we’ve all been there. But the good news is that things do get better with time. Unfortunately, right after a breakup, we enter a period of sadness. What do we do to fight this sadness? Jump right into a new relationship to avoid the pain.
We get it, no one wants to experience the pain of a broken heart. Who wants to be lonely, right? So instead, they seek out someone new or even someone from the past to use as a Band-Aid for the time being.
Of course, it’s a very rude move to make, but it happens. Have you found yourself on the receiving end of a rebounder? Let our Dallas matchmaking service show you the warning signs you’re the rebound guy.
- Something doesn’t feel right.
People say that men are not as intuitive as women, but they have it all wrong. Everyone has that little voice inside. Everyone is intuitive. If you pay close attention to the little voice inside of you and it’s telling you something is wrong, listen to it. NEVER second guess that little voice inside of you. It’s there for a reason.
- You’re moving too fast.
Did you have sex with her after meeting her only twice? Did she already tell you that she loved you after date number three? Are you spending weekends at her place after only dating for two weeks? You really like her, but things are definitely moving too fast. Wouldn’t you say?
- When she talks about her ex, she’s angry.
It’s normal to mention an ex during conversation, but if you’re really over them, you’re rarely going to talk about them. However, since she’s rebounding, she’s always talking about him. She says how much she hates him and wants him out of her life.
- It’s all about the sex.
This is the easiest way to know you’re in a rebound relationship. Rebound relationships are solely based on sex. She needs to forget her ex, and the best way to do it is by having sex. She wants to feel a connection. But because she can’t make an emotional connection, she’ll have to settle for sex—a physical connection.
- She was freshly single before meeting you.
You met her just a few days after she broke up with her boyfriend. Hmm, guess what? She’s definitely rebounding. If she’s freshly single and didn’t give herself enough time to process the breakup and handle her emotions, she’s rebounding with you. She should’ve given herself a few months to get over a long-term relationship. If she’s fresh out of a relationship, she’s not completely healed and over him.
- You don’t have anything in common.
Aside from the large amount of sex you have, you don’t have anything in common. In fact, when you sit down and think about it, you’ve never had any deep conversations. Sex is the only thing that preoccupies your minds.
So here’s the big question: are you the rebound guy? If you are, don’t worry. Everyone has been the rebound guy at one point. But now that you know, it’s time to walk away. You don’t want to be someone’s rebound.
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