Arlington Matchmaking Service | How to Start a Text Conversation

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Depending on your personality, texting may be easier or harder than an in-person conversation with your love interest. When you are face-to-face, things can flow more naturally. Over text, you may overthink and feel the need to plan out what you’re going to say. So, knowing how to talk via text is key.

Do you start the conversation with a simple “hey” and hope it takes off from there? Or do you go in with a question or a funny joke?

How to Start a Conversation via Text

 

Remember that getting the perfect flow is something everyone worries about. We have all one time or another written out a text, went back, deleted it all, and replaced it with a simple “hello.”

No one wants to come off as clingy or desperate. You also want to have a good flowing conversation, so you have to find a happy medium.

Today, our Arlington matchmaking service is going to show you the best way to start a conversation.

  1. Do you just want to talk?

 

If you’re texting a new love interest, but you don’t want to commit to meeting up, try something more playful and interesting that will get the conversation flowing. Even something as simple as, “I was just watching The Office and one of the characters reminded me of you.”

Adding a glimpse of your hobbies or interests into your first text message will give your love interest something to latch onto to carry the conversation on.

  1. Can you woo them?

 

Probably not too much via text, but with a series of fun and flirty text messages you can. If you have a crush on someone, avoid texting them the same way normally would text a friend. That will only push you further into the dreaded friend zone.

Try something subtly flirty with them. Even a simple compliment like, “You looked great yesterday,” puts a less platonic spin on the conversation. You can also go for the go-to move in dating and make them laugh. Try sending them a funny meme or a joke.

  1. Stop Stressing

 

Knowing exactly how to start a conversation with someone over text is difficult, especially if you’re just starting to date them. Do you go straight in all comfy like you’re official with a “Hey, babe,” or do you hold back a little?

No matter what, never say, “Sorry if I’m bothering you.” This message in and of itself is bothersome for many people. It shows that you have no confidence in yourself. So even if they say something like “sorry, busy at work.” Respond with a “No worries, well talk later on tonight.”

  1. Reaching Out After a Fight

 

Sending the first text message after a fight can be very confusing. You don’t want to let anger get the best of you. You aren’t sure if you should go with humor or how exactly to measure the situation.

If you want to start a conversation after a fight, whether big or small, an apology is usually the best text message to send. Nobody is saying you should apologize for something that wasn’t your fault, but you can just let them know that you feel bad that you fought and want to work things out. However, if it was your fault, then, yes, you should own up to your mistake and extend a sincere apology.

  1. Handling Nervousness

 

A wrong text fake out is slightly immature, but still a less risky way to go. If you’re scared of rejection or getting ghosted, you can say something along the lines that you meant to text a friend or a sibling. Something like, “we’re out of milk,” or “I don’t know, ask mom.” They will know this text message wasn’t meant for them, but it can be an entryway into new conversation.

Knowing how to start a conversation via text is pretty much a must-have skill today, especially if you want to find that love and romance you desire and deserve. If you’re single and ready to meet relationship-minded singles in Dallas, contact our Arlington matchmaking service today. To reserve your FREE (90-minute) matchmaking consultation, simply fill out the confidential form at the top of the page today.