Arlington Matchmaking Service | 4 Signs He Just Wants Sex
You’re starting to invest time in this new guy…and yet you find yourself looking for signs he’s only using you for sex. You want to know now before you invest more time into him and end up with a broken heart.
The last thing you want is to fall for a man who’s only after you for sex.
Are we right?
So…does he want a relationship or is he only after you for sex?
We’ll be honest: all men love sex, want sex, and will move mountains to have sex.
It’s in their DNA. Don’t blame them.
If this man is pursuing you in any way, he’s already thought about having sex with you in his mind. Trust us.
Although that may sound weird to you, that’s the truth.
The bad thing is if he only wants to date you for sex. Now that’s a problem.
Not to worry, fearless lady- our Arlington matchmakers have some tips for you to help you identify a guy who’s only after you for sex. If you notice these behaviors, you know you need to cut him loose.
- He’s very social and always has women around him.
The sexual stereotype that everyone knows is that men want to have sex with as many women as possible. But that’s not true. Men did want a lot of women when they were in high supply. But now that women are in short supply, men do want commitment.
The lesson here? If a man is surrounded by women – and lots of them – he likely sees the abundance as a challenge to conquer them. That’s definitely not the guy you want to date.
Now, certainly, a man who is ready for a committed relationship will leave all those women behind. He should cut ties with all women so he can devote time to you. If you see a guy surrounded by a lot of women, assume that he is only after you for sex.
- Your best times together are sex-related.
When you think back about the times you’ve spent together, you think, wow, we really have a great time.
But what are you really doing during those great times?
Going on hikes?
Trying new restaurants?
Exploring new places in town?
Or are you just having sex?
If you spend the majority of your time together having sex… or if the dates consist of Chinese take-out and sex, then we’re sorry to tell you this, but he’s only after you for sex.
- You’re giving him what he wants.
Now, this is on him primarily, but you need to look at your own behavior as well. If the only thing you’re giving this guy is sex, then how can you be mad that he’s only after you for sex.
In order for a man to commit to you seriously, he needs to get something from you that he can’t get anywhere else. Sex, he can get that from any woman. Your unique personality? He can’t get that anywhere.
If you’re complaining and getting frustrated that he’s not committing to you beyond your nightly sex session, that’s because you’re already giving him everything he wants from you.
- He’s in a stage where he doesn’t want anything but sex.
Consider where the man you’re dating is at in his life. If he’s between the ages of 25 and 35, he may have commitment issues, but after that period, chances are that he’ll be ready to commit.
If you really want to date a man with long-term potential, consider targeting men in the mature age group. Now, that’s certainly not to say that younger men aren’t looking for commitment, but a lot of them are only after sex.
If you’re single and want to meet relationship-minded men in Dallas, contact our Arlington matchmaking service today. To reserve your FREE (90-minute) matchmaking consultation, simply fill out the confidential form at the top of the page today.