Garland Matchmakers | 5 Signs You Should Take Your Ex Back
Ever since you broke up with him, well, you just can’t get him off your mind. Did you make the right decision? Should you have ended it so soon? If you have any lingering doubts, maybe now is the time to consider giving him another chance.
Now, ladies, this doesn’t mean that every ex out there deserves a second chance. There are some things that are simply unforgiveable. For example, if you caught him cheating, then he doesn’t deserve a second chance. You can’t have a relationship without trust, and cheating breaks that trust. Also, if a man hits you or threatens to hit you, that’s an unforgiveable act.
But if you think he deserves a second chance, or you regret breaking up with him, here are a few signs he deserves a second chance with you.
- If it was his first mess up.
If this was the first time he’s done something, as far as you know, and he doesn’t have a history of doing anything wrong, then by all means give him a second chance. We all mess up from time to time, so as long as he asks for forgiveness, you can give him a second chance. If you think you’ll be able to move past what he did and move forward together, then you should have no problem.
- See the problem through his eyes.
It’s easy to get caught up in the moment. We feel something and react to it immediately. After the fight, take a timeout and view the situation through his eyes. Remember that no one in the world is perfect, so perhaps he slipped up by accident.
- Other people say to give him another chance.
Sometimes we’re blinded and aren’t able to see the things that are right in front of our eyes. We either see what’s right in front of us or we don’t. This is because we’re the ones in the relationship, which is why we need help from people on the outside. Talk to your friends and family and get their opinion about the situation. Your friends can help you out and give you greater insight on how to fix your relationship. If they feel like your ex deserves a second chance, then give him a second chance.
- You didn’t really want to dump him.
This one is self-explanatory. If you never wanted to dump him in the first place but felt pressured to do it by friends and family members, then by all means give your ex a second chance. People break up all the time for reasons their heart doesn’t believe in, like pressure from friends and family members.
- You have cooled off and are ready to give it another shot.
Whatever you do, never get back together with your ex without giving it a lot of thought. Although you might think it’s just an ex and you can’t possibly be hurt any more than you already have been, breakups are more painful the second time around, believe us.
Even if everything is pointing towards another beginning, take time to think things over carefully. You might have forgiven them, they might prove that they’ve changed, and you might know in your heart that this will make you happy, which is the most important thing, but you still must think long and hard.
Whether or not you give him another chance is totally up to you. You are the only person who knows if he deserves a second chance to make it work. We wish you the very best of luck in whatever you choose to do.
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