Fort Worth Matchmaking Service | 3 Signs He’s Not the One

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The jury is out: dating is very challenging.  There’s one tool that always comes in handy when it comes to dating: your woman’s intuition.  If your new love interest displays red flags, you should never overlook them despite his killer good looks and charm.  If he displays certain behaviors and character traits, it’s best to walk away before you get hurt.  Even if it’s the last thing you want to do, even if you think you love him to pieces, it will be much better for you down the road.  Take it from our matchmakers, life is too short to settle for someone who isn’t right for you.

There are certain things you shouldn’t put up with from a guy.  It’s not like you don’t have options because, believe us, you do.  There are thousands of quality single men in Dallas-Fort Worth who are looking for a great catch like you right now.  You need to find a man who doesn’t have any of these bad traits and qualities.  Generally speaking, men don’t change, which is exactly why you should never ignore these character flaws.

Today, our Fort Worth matchmaking service will show you telltale signs he’s not the one for you.

1. He Lies About Everything

Fool me once, shame on you.  Well, we think you know the rest of the saying.  If you’re constantly catching your guy in lies, it’s time to say goodbye, especially when the situation is so insignificant and there’s no reason to lie.  Lying about little things is a surefire sign that he’ll lie about big things.  If he tells you that the woman in his picture is no one to worry about and it ends up being one of his ex-girlfriends, why would you put up with that?

If he’s already lying to you about little things, imagine down the road… he’ll definitely lie about more serious things.  Why would you want to stick with someone like that?  Who knows what else he’s really lying to you about.

At the end of the day, a white lie is still a lie, and there is ill intent behind it.  That being said, if your boyfriend is lying to you, even about small things, he’s not the one for you.

2. He Is Still in Touch with His Ex

People don’t usually text their exes, unless of course there is something going on.  The context of the text is also very important.  Does he flirt with her?  If so, you should ditch him.  You never want to be put in a situation where the ex is still romantically involved.  We promise you that this scenario will not end well.  No man is worth competing over.  You want someone who devotes all their attention to you and only you.

Let him deal with his ex on his own.  It’s not worth it.  We can guarantee you that if you continue with this guy, one day he’ll eventually cheat (if he hasn’t already).  Being in a love triangle spells nothing but trouble.  It will have a detrimental effect in your dating life and could even spill over to your next relationship.

3. He Parties All the Time

Does he pop bottles every weekend?  Goodbye!  Dating this type of guy is never a good idea.  First of all, he’s showing you where his priorities lie.  Secondly, he’s around drunk women all the time, which increases his chances of cheating on you.  Do you really want to date a guy who is always in a position of temptation?  Having a social life is wonderful, and everyone should have an active social life, but excessive drinking and partying every weekend is only for the younger generation.

If your boyfriend is partying like a frat boy, then it’s time you find yourself a new boyfriend.  He should be prioritizing you and the relationship, not drinking his life away every weekend.  Guys’ nights are totally acceptable, but not every evening and every weekend.  That is a huge red flag—goodbye!

If you haven’t made up your mind about your guy yet, use these three signs from our Dallas matchmakers to see where he stands.

If you’re single and looking for relationship-minded men in Dallas-Fort Worth, contact our Fort Worth matchmaking service today and let our expert matchmakers do the matching for you.  To reserve your FREE (90-minute) matchmaking consultation, simply fill out the confidential form at the top of the page today!