Matchmakers Corner

Qualities a Boyfriend Must Possess

by arda on Wednesday, February 26, 2014 6:57 AM
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Are you wondering if the man you’re dating is as good as you hoped for a lifelong partner to be?  Figure out if your boyfriend is a great boyfriend as our matchmakers here at Dallas Singles Dating Service describe the top qualities and traits a great boyfriend should possess.

An ideal boyfriend isn’t easy to find, and even if you do find him he may already be in someone else’s arms.  But do you ever wonder what is it that truly makes a great boyfriend?  Well, our matchmakers have a few qualities and traits that will help you figure it out if the man you’re dating is good partner to share your life with.


Finding the Right Boyfriend

Everyone has flaws, including you, and it would be outrageous to believe we’re all perfect… So when you are looking for the right man you need to make sure that you are the right woman.  Men and women both have flaws, but in many cases, those flaws are not a big deal—sometimes it‘s just a little ignorance or maybe some men don’t know what a woman likes and vice versa.  Every man has potential of being a great boyfriend if he chooses to fix those things that are holding him back.

The Qualities of an Ideal Boyfriend

If you have to look for one important quality that your ideal boyfriend should possess, it should be his ability to communicate and understand you.  After all, our matchmakers here at Dallas Singles know relationships are built on communication and understanding, and without that, they will fail.
If you’re dating a man, and even if he seems to be perfect, he could eventually show flaws and differences that could end up ruining the relationship so keep your eyes open for any slight signs.

Signs of an Ideal Boyfriend

If you have recently started dating a new man over the past few weeks or months and are looking to figure out whether or not he’s a good fit for you, then you need to see if he lacks any of these important qualities and traits.  If so, you’re probably better off dating another man, someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated by a loving partner.

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He Knows How to Communicate

An ideal boyfriend loves talking to his woman.  He pays close attention to her day and wants to know if there is something new.  And most importantly, he wants to understand her.  So if your boyfriend is a good boyfriend, he will want to get to know you and understand you. 

He’s Fun & Exciting

A great boyfriend is active and leads a life full of fun.  A great boyfriend will always be a great man, his social life is very active, he gets along with everyone very easily, and he’s very likeable and has an aura about him that draws positive people towards him.

He’s Very Romantic

Many men will only woo a woman until she finally accepts him, but stop behaving like that as soon as they get the lady.  Don’t date a man who takes back all the nice things he did for you as soon as he wins your heart.  An ideal boyfriend will continue to do those things even though he already knows he has you by his side.

He Knows You Well

An ideal boyfriend will be a boyfriend who knows you well.  He notices if you come home with a new haircut or are wearing a new dress.  If a man is in love with you he will notice the little changes you do because he cares to.

He Shows Interest in Your Life

Does your boyfriend ask you how your day was?  An ideal boyfriend is always interested in hearing about his girlfriend’s life, he will miss you when he’s not with you and hearing about your day makes him feel closer to you.

He Doesn’t Pressure You

He doesn’t pressure you into doing things you don’t enjoy.  He might advise you or even try to convince you, but at the end of the day he doesn’t manipulate you or threaten you into doing things you don’t enjoy.

Qualities a Boyfriend Must Possess

He Helps You Become a Better Person

When two people are in love with each other, they can’t help but to bring the best out of each other.  A great boyfriend will motivate you to pursue and achieve your goals, and he’ll want you to reach your full potential. 

He Is Liked by Your Friends & Family

An ideal boyfriend will do whatever it takes to impress you, and that means being nice to your friends and family (even if he doesn’t get along with a few of them).  He does this because he knows these people mean a lot to you.

He Makes Time for You

No matter how busy his day is or how occupied his social calendar is, he always has time for you.  He may sacrifice his afternoon gym session just to spend some quality time with you—and he doesn’t do this because you’re nagging, he does this because he enjoys your company.

He Has Full Respect for You

He doesn’t flirt or ogle women in front of you, he never speaks badly about you to his friends, and most importantly, he respects you like a lady.

He Has Goals in Life

An ideal boyfriend is one who has goals in life and works hard in order to achieve them.  He doesn’t complain about how unfair life can be.  Instead he does as the quote goes and grabs the bull by the horns.

He Looks Good for You

He grooms himself every time he comes to see you.  He takes care of his appearance, he even works out regularly and stays in shape because he wants to look the best he can for you.

So how many of these qualities and traits do you see in your boyfriend right now?  If a handful of them are missing, it might be time to have a chat with him.  As much as these signs seem instinctual, some men might have no clue unless you flat out point it out to them.

If you’re a single woman in Dallas and looking to meet your ideal partner, contact our team of dating specialists here at Dallas Singles Dating Service to find out how we can help you in the Dallas dating world.  Our matchmakers will only introduce you to quality singles who meet the criteria you’re looking for in a partner and relationship.

Call us today to set up your consultation with one of our personal matchmakers. 


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